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*TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE*
*FOR THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED OR THOSE ARE PREPARING TO GET
MARRIED SOON*
1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*
Only God has no
weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your
spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.
2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*
No one is an Angel,
therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your
partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't
be change. So Focus on the present and the future!
3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES*
Marriage is not bed of
roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and
excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your
marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember
this is the vow you made on your wedding day!
4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*
Don't compare your
marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and
others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with
time, your marriage dreams shall come true.
5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*
When you marry, you
must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage
are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence,
Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness,
Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*
There is no ready-made
marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it
daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this
parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the
road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are
careless about our marriage... Are you? If you are, please pay attention to
your marriage.
7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*
He (God) gives you, him
or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire.
You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for
30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.
8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*
You cannot predict what
will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for
adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get marry to
her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose
his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility
of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will
smile at last.
9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT*
Marriage needs total commitment;
love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the
mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose
to remain married! God hates divorce
10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*
Marriage is like a bank
account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw.
If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a
candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, you cannot
love without giving and sacrificing.
May God Give You the
Grace and Wisdom to Build a Heaven on Earth Marriage.
Pray for your family,
take the birthday of your spouse serious as well as your anniversary. This is
usually important.
I love you all, from
Mr. Spark Ovadje.